L’istinto e il dovere, riflessione sulla vita | Instinct and obligation: a reflection about life

La riflessione di questa mattina riguarda la vita. Precisamente le esigenze che caratterizzano le stagioni della nostra vita.

Non voglio entrare nel merito di tutte le stagioni ma voglio generalizzare il più possibile focalizzandomi su due grossi ceppi che chiamerò istinto e dovere, che sono le forze che maggiormente li caratterizzano.

The reflection of this morning is about the life. In particular the needs that feature the seasons of our own life.

I don’t want  to talk about all seasons, but I want to be a lot generic. I want to focus  on two big columns that I call Instinct and Obligation,  the forces which featured them.

Istinto: è la parte adolescente della vita. Generalmente arriva fino ai 25-28 anni, per molti finisce prima, per molti dopo, per alcuni dura per sempre. È la parte incentrata sulle passioni, sull’istinto. sull’impulsività. In ogni campo ci si lascia facilmente guidare da queste sensazioni, ci sono ancora le farfalle nello stomaco, c’è l’entusiasmo delle prime ma anche delle secondo volte. Lo stupore. Ci si lancia sulle cose, anzi ci si butta di testa, poi magari si soffre il doppio se va male (amore, studio, passioni), però non ci sono rimpianti. Si vive il momento a 360°. Talvolta dimenticandosi dei doveri.

Instinct: it is the adolescent side of the life. Generally it arrives until 25 – 28 years od, for many people it finish before, for other after, for still other it goes on fon whole life. It is the part dedicated to the passions and instict. And to the impulsiveness. In every field we just flow from these sensations, there are already  butterflies in the stomach, there is enthusiasm on the first times and also of the second times. The amazement. It is the time of pounce, and of rush. Maybe if it doesn’t go well means to suffer a lot, but ther aren’t regrets. You live at 360° forgot the obligation.

Dovere: Avviene dopo, quando subentra il lavoro, la famiglia, la casa. In una parola: le responsabilità. I gesti che si fanno diventano quasi meccanici, sveglia la mattina, lavoro, pranzo, cena. I giorni sembrano uguali, vengono scanditi da questi eventi fissi, che però ci danno il ritmo, l’andamento, l’equilibrio. SI vive aspettando il week end, ogni proposta viene pesata accuratamente in base alle altre cose da fare (mi devo riposare, sono stanco, devo alzarmi presto, devo andare a pilates, devo fare questo o quello), L’impulso è assopito, l’istinto controllato. In tutto, a lavoro come in amore. Non ci si lancia ma si riflette 100 volte. Conviene? che possibilità ho di avere successo? ci provo con quella persona? mi lancio a fare quella cosa che vorrei? forse non ne vale la pena. Spesso lasciamo stare.

Obligation: this time happens after the first one, when arrive the work, the family, the house, In one word: responsibility. Everything you do becomes mechanical: waking up in the morning, working, having launch, having dinner. The days are the same, and all this events give you the rhythm of the life and the equilibrium. People lives waiting the week en, Every proposal should be evaluated in base of the other things to do (“I can’t came with you, I have to go to gym/ to wash my hair/ to take children at school..”). The instinct is weakened and restrained in all fields: love and work. It is not the time to rush because everything should be analyzed: “it is worth is?”. Often people let it go.
In entrambi i casi ovviamente esistono le eccezioni, ossia coloro che vengono spesso visti come persone “strane” perché fuori dal senso comune. “sembra un vecchio per la sua età”, ” non si rende conto che deve mettere la testa a posto”.

Perché questa analisi? perché dobbiamo guardaci dentro e cercare di mantenere un equilibrio tra i due aspetti sopra citati. Le persone di successo ci riflettono, ma si lanciano. Ci provano. Osano. Magari prevedendo un piano B per un eventuale insuccesso.

Nella vita il dovere non può essere eluso, ma non possiamo neanche dimenticarci dei nostri istinti. Coltivate le vostre passioni, cantate a squarciagola, superate, ogni tanto, la vostra zona di confort. Vi sentirete più creativi, ma soprattutto più vivi.

 

In both of these case, there are exceptions, obviously. Usually these exception are seen as weird because are outside of the context: “an old boy” or a “too young man, a peterpan”

Why this analysis? Because we need to see inside ourself and try to mantain a balance between thees two side. Successfull people do it! Try it, dare. Maybe they think a Plan B.

In the life the obligation is important, but also the instinct. Try to imagine conceiving a passion for something, having one desire, dedicating your life to it. You will become more creative, you feel alive and above all, you will be Happy.

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